I have a secret...I am really NOT ready for school to start.
Not ready to send Munchkin on to first grade, not ready for homework.
Not ready to be making lunches everyday.
Not ready to meet a new teacher-for either of us!
Not ready to share my Munchkin again.
This summer has been pretty awesome. Tons of time with family and at the pool and beach, but also tons of time just together. Reading, exploring, playing. We have had squirt gun fights, water balloon fights, endless games of tag.
We have laughed A LOT! He has gotten to enjoy a ton of camps and then come home and excitedly shared his day with me. It has been magical.
I am not ready for it to end at ALL! I enjoy having him home with me and I enjoy our time.
But in all honesty, what I am really not ready for is to explain us again. Countless times. I am not ready for a whole new set of people to have to ask where Robert is, then give me that pity look when I say he is dead. I honestly don't know why the pity look bothers me. It is far better for a stranger to show emotion than to be indifferent. I am not ready for a new teacher to ask Munchkin to draw a picture of his family and then call me up when it looks "weird". Yes it is normal for us to have all his aunts and uncles, Nana and Papa in the picture....and yes the floating head in the clouds that he labels Daddy---well he has done that since he was 2. His understanding of Heaven is that it is in the clouds-so there Daddy is drawn. And I am not ready for the seasoned teacher to tell me that she has only ever had a handful of kids who have lost a parent to death. Ever. In her whole career.
I am NOT READY for these conversations.
But at the end of the day, I am the grown-up. The only one in our house and since I sincerely want Munchkin to enjoy school, I will suck it up. I will look to all of the new things he gets to do this year and I will get excited with him. We will go shopping for school supplies and we will gather up all of the other things around the house. We will do this with a smile on my face because I know the best thing I can do for him is show him excitement about school.
I will pray every day for him as I send him off and I will trust God that things will be exactly as they are supposed to be because that is what I do.