So now Munchkin seems to be on the road back to healthy, the past week or so has really been about settling in. Unpacking, sorting and arranging more stuff in the house.
Honestly so much has been in storage since 2008, it is hard to know where to start. I have found a bunch of stuff that I thought was lost. It has been odd. Still coming across his handwriting iin unexpected boxes. Finding stuff and wondering what possesed me to actually pack it???
The BLUE BINS are almost gone! Granted, some stuff has been repacked into green bins, but such is life right? The blue bins were a reminder to me...they came from Texas and they have dutifully housed our tangible posessions all this time. They reminded me of the horrid week of packing away our life, deciding what was important when in my heart, I knew that there was nothing in the house that was more important than HIM and that the simple fact that he would never come home again made everything else painful for me. So painful, that I don't think that I functioned in any logical way for a very very long time.
I think that the bins with the music were the most painful for me. He was a music teacher, a musician and composer. There are not words that can impart the meaning that music had in our lives. We used to joke...I could play anything on paper, he could play anything on paper, but usually chose to embellish it somewhat! Well, I sorted through music today. All this time, I thought all the music was his, and honeslty, there is a HUGE amoung that is mine! It is now sorted...Teaching stuff in one bin in the back of the closet. My choral stuff close to that. Elementary piano pulled up for munchkin to mess around with. My band stuff front and center. The piano is decorated nicely. I have some pictures that I picked up to hang on the wall.
It felt good to accomplish something that I had set aside for so long. For nearly 5 years, I have avoided the music bins. Well, today they are tackled. I unearthed tons of memories, but thus far no tears. This is huge for me. For years, I could not even look at the blue bins, let alone open them without bursting into tears.
My heart still aches for him and I still miss him, I always will, but for today, I am more focused on unpacking our house and moving into the future with Munchkin. He deserves no less than my full love and attention.